“You are responsible for my suffering” – Oh! really …

http://ramshergill.com/womens/patriota-twins/ I do not know how humanity existed before my time. But now, I can see that almost everyone is in some conflict or the other, always. And everyone keeps blaming someone else or something else for their suffering.

  • The husband blames his wife for his misery. The wife blames her mother-in-law.
  • The parents blame the school for poor education. The school bemoans the quality of the students for poor results.
  • The citizen blames the government for all existential troubles. The politicians blame the people for lack of ownership.
  • The socialist blames the capitalist for the latter’s greed. The capitalist blames the market for his inability to close deals.
  • The management blames the employees for poor performance. The employees blame their bosses for their lack of motivation.
  • The loser blames the system for being unsupportive. The officials blame the player for his incompetence.
  • The atheist blames the superstitious of being a cheat. The follower blames God for being blind to his woes.
  • Super powers blame the developing countries. Warring nations blame each other.

go site And the list goes on.

pour un flirt avec toi partition gratuite The manner in which humans have shirked responsibility for their own well-being is in shameless display. Schools do not inculcate the basic character trait in each child, of taking ownership of his or her own life.

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source I am the victim.
I am the sufferer.
I am a beggar.
I am humble.
I am invincible.
I am infallible.
I am unquestionable.
I am an intellectual.
I am a savior.
I am a super-power.
I am mighty.
I am the perfect person.
I am the seeker.
I am the sought.
etc.
These are some of the identities each one of us wears and refuses to shed.

get link We believe that we are either the center of the universe and that the universe must revolve around us or we are the boundary of the universe beyond whom nothing exists. As a result, we always expect the world to pity, care, comply, admire, fear and do us a favor by making us eternally happy. We fail to realize that nobody owes us a dole; that the world does not care and that the world is what we make of it.

http://penizeamy.cz/friopre/6802 I am not suggesting that we must imagine a heaven, when there is real pain and trouble in our lives. As our age-old wisdom teaches, ‘The pain may be real. The suffering is always our choice.’ There’s absolutely no virtue about being a conceited whiner.

phrase type rencontre internet Whining inflates the ego and perpetuates the misery. Humble, focused and determined action alone annihilates the ego and gets us out of our troubles. 
source site This is worth repeating… 
Whining inflates the ego and perpetuates the misery. Humble, focused and determined action alone annihilates the ego and gets us out of our troubles. 

http://www.mentzer-consult.de/?afinoes=bin%C3%A4re-optionen-nur-gl%C3%BCck&0f9=e6 It is time, each of us realized that we are roaming corpses, who mean nothing to the grand universe and that the world would be better off without us.

source site It is time, each of us stopped thinking too much about ourselves and understood the triviality of our little selves.

It is time, we stopped garnishing our character with deceit, laziness, low standards, slavery, greed, arrogance and violence.

It is time, each of us took charge of our own lives and stopped pointing fingers at others and the world.

http://ligaspanyol.net/?mikroskop=site-de-rencontre-pour-motards&93a=a7 தீதும், நன்றும் பிறர் தர வாரா – harm and good are never caused to us by others‘ – reminds an ancient Tamil poet. It is time, parents and schools taught this basic lesson to children.

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1 Response to “You are responsible for my suffering” – Oh! really …

  1. Manikandan says:

    Nice. True life lesson. Esp, ‘The pain may be real. The suffering is always our choice.’ and ‘தீதும், நன்றும் பிறர் தர வாரா – harm and good are never caused to us by others‘ are very true one and everyone must be aware of those.

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